My name is David. I'm living in Berkeley., prior to that in S.F., Santa Cruz, & have also lived in Seattle, Asheville, & Maui & before that I lived for many years in the San Francisco / Silicon Valley areas.
Some stuff about me:
Non-smoker, non-drinker, no
drugs -ok, so
I'm a chocoholic, also like ice cream, coffee, and coffee ice cream
-ok, so I'm a chocoholic, also like ice cream, coffee, and coffee ice cream
What am I doing now?
I do homeopathy & craniosacral work... and I also have been a computer professional for years, and am happy to be a computer doctor while building my people-oriented alternative health practice in the San Francisco Bay area.
Current interests include co-creating ecologically conscious community.
6' & 175 lbs .. kind of on the slim side of medium, fit &
strong.. hair is slightly longish curly dark blonde, & have
are fairly recent pictures, and I have others available including sailing
Spiritual, not conventionally
Astrologically Aquarius, Virgo
rising, Moon in Cancer, Mars in Scorpio.. highly aspected chart,
grand square, grand trine… (old soul).
Divorced and wanting to have a
relationship that encompasses all of the better parts of my past
ones, and less of the poorer ones.
the connectedness that it is possible to achieve thru conscious
spiritual, emotional and physical love.
(this is putting it mildly <big smile> what I really mean is
that this part of life is the closest thing to unadulterated JOY
that I have experienced! )
In answer to the question:
Visually, I guess deep blue eyes.
What am I looking for in a
Self acceptance, studied self
awareness, & healthy love of self and Spirit.
Preferably somewhere near
genius-level intelligence and great sense of humor
or "attractive", healthy, smart, sexy, on the slim to medium
Someone who desires to co-create a wonderful life with a guy like me <grin>
My last longterm relationship:
couple" who couldn't quite get around to co-creating the wonderful
relationship that was "on the table"
She felt that she didn't
receive unconditional love from me, though I loved her very much, quite unconditionally...
This seems to have been
based partially in "the usual" communication difficulties between
the sexes and largely in our unresolved "stuff" .... we were
together for 4 years, and married 3.. went to several couples
counselors, read a few relationship self help books,
did a lot of loving, a bit of fighting (too much) :(
and a lot of growing.
This last one (there've been
a few :) was the richest relationship of my life.
My capacity to love and
connect intimately have blossomed...
the break-up seems to have catalyzed a wonderful growth in both of us :)
(I have GREAT references-
really ! :)
I'm always attending the
school of life.
stuff... ( yawn )
I am VERY INTERESTED in social awareness, and “changin’
computer-biz related stuff, eco-tourism, alternative energy, green-building, sustainable agriculture, (actually
“sustainable” and “alternative”
ANYTHING …are probably of interest to me)
NOT like spectator sports generally.
I won't watch any on the toob, (don't even own one) but might go to one with you if you really wanted to .(I'm flexible, and aim to please <grin> )
I have played racquetball in
the past, and recently tried tennis.
I enjoy relatively
calm-water kayaking on the rivers around here, also in the ocean.
I grew up in Los Angeles,
and lived in the San Francisco bay area for most of my adult life.
Spent almost a year in New
Orleans in my hard drinkin' early 20's
One year in San Diego also.
Have also visited New York, Chicago, Philadelphia, Honolulu, Seattle, Portland, Phoenix, Houston Vancouver BC, and others- have a secret wish to visit Dharamsala in the Himalayas, and maybe other parts of India – Maybe Thailand and a bit more of Southeast Asia while in the area. Also maybe Wales & Scotland (ancestral homelands ) and who knows where else? Hong Kong, & China, Taiwan, Singapore – all of these places and others in the Pacific Rim are possible business/pleasure travel destinations.
a prime goal is a fantastic relationship!
see this as one of the most important and valuable things in life.
Other than that, I've had
little trouble doing what I set out to do.
am becoming an "alternative" healer, something I've
toyed with for years, and been really serious about for about 6yrs; I
have a persistent daydream about a multi-disciplinary healing
center, possibly with some liive-in facilities for supervised detox,
maybe hospice, or.. ?
am looking for someone who wants an intense level of connection in a
hopefully life-long relationship.
I say I was a real fun guy? =:->)
email address is
click hyperlink to write me
there, or call 510.776.5914 if you prefer !